Behind the Talent Series, Part 1: Why “Yes” Doesn’t Always Mean Yes
A manager once told me: “I don’t understand. My team keeps saying yes… but the output isn’t what I expected.” If you’ve worked with Filipino teams, you’ve probably experienced this. You give instructions. They say yes. Everyone seems aligned. But later, something feels off. And it’s easy to assume: “They didn’t listen.” “They didn’t understand.” “They’re not being proactive.” But that’s usually not what’s happening. What “Yes” Actually Means In many Western cultures, “yes” means: - I understand - I agree - I’m aligned In Filipino culture, “yes” can mean something slightly different: - I hear you - I respect you - I will try That difference matters. Because Filipino professionals are raised in a culture that values: - Respect for authority - Maintaining harmony - Avoiding direct conflict So instead of pushing back or asking too many questions upfront, they may say yes first and figure things out after. Not because they don’t care, but because they do. The Intention Behind It This ...