Clarity Is Self-Respect
Why leaders become stronger, calmer, and more effective when they stop apologizing for their limits By Nikita Mercado For a long time, I misunderstood clarity. I thought being clear about my limits made me difficult, demanding, or “too much.” So I softened my tone. I over-explained. I left space for people to interpret my silence as agreement. I made myself easy to work with—even when it cost me peace, time, and energy. But clarity is not harsh. Clarity is not conflict. Clarity is not selfish. Clarity is self-respect. And the moment you communicate your limits without apology is the moment you begin to teach people how to treat you. https://medium.com/@thenikitamercado/clarity-is-self-respect-ecfe0e300da8